The major value in life is not what you get. The major value in life is what you become.
If someone is going down the wrong road, he doesn't need motivation to speed him up. What he needs is education to turn him around.
We must all suffer one of two things: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret or disappointment.
Character isn't something you were born with and can't change, like your fingerprints. It's something you weren't born with and must take responsibility for forming.