Give whatever you are doing and whoever you are with the gift of your attention.
Let others lead small lives, but not you. Let others argue over small things, but not you. Let others cry over small hurts, but not you. Let others leave their future in someone else's hands, but not you.
We must all suffer one of two things: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret or disappointment.
Your philosophy determines whether you will go for the disciplines or continue the errors.